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10 Things to do after 50.

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1. Try everything twice.
On one woman’s tombstone she said she wanted this epitaph:
“Tried everything twice. Loved it both times!”

 

2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down.
(Keep this in mind if you are one of those grouches!)

 

3. Keep learning.

Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever…


Never let the brain get idle. ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.’


And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s!

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud.

Laugh until you gasp for breath.

And if you have a friend who makes you laugh, spend lots and lots of time with HIM/HER.

6. The tears happen: endure, grieve and move on. The only person who is with us our entire
life, is ourselves. LIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever…
Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health.
If it is good, preserve it.
If it is unstable, improve it.
If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don’t take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where

the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

I love you, my special friend!

11. Forgive now those who made you cry. You might not get a second chance

can improve, get help.

 

Me Before You

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The movie came out June 3rd; but before you go to the movie, read the book .  The book is definitely better than the movie.  And you relive the book as you watch the movie unfold. If you cant make the movie, and you want the best summer read of the year, This is it..  Me Before You, by Jojo Moyes, is one of the best books I’ve read in a really long time.

I wasn’t sure I was up for a heartbreaker, so even when friends recommended the book, I was thinking , I love happy, witty , fun summer reads. I am not into books about breaking hearts .  However, because I’m Emilia Clarke’s number one fan…I mean what’s not to love about the Mother of Dragons and because I always read the book before seeing the movie, I downloaded it to kindle and couldn’t put it down..  It is the kind of book that breaks your heart. You may cry, but it leaves you with  a whole new perspective on life and love.

Me Before You follows the heartbreaking romance between a rather unlikely pair, Louisa Clark and Will Traynor.  Their paths never would have crossed had Louisa not been desperate for a job and Will not been left wheelchair bound after an accident.  When Louisa takes a last resort job assignment working as Will’s caretaker, constantly reminding herself that it’s only temporary is the one thing that helps her to get through each work day.  In the beginning, their personalities are at odds with each other.   Will is rather hateful towards Louisa.  Though not too many weeks pass by before Louisa’s quirkiness and refusal to deal with his rudeness cracks Will’s tough exterior, and she starts to genuinely care about the man she’s been hired to serve.

As the story continues, you see love , not in the usual way that people love. I don’t want to give too much away. It is a book that will stay with me for quite a while

Needless to say I’ll be reading the sequel very soon .

After You,   which is available now.

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June is filled with back yard grilling, catching fireflies, water fun and games.  And lets not forget that June is the month of the Bride.   I recently attended an outdoor wedding. The wedding was Shabby Chic theme and the reception party was a blast.  The wedding had many homemade games and fun things to do while celebrating the afternoon with the wedding couple.  One of the games really caught my attention and I immediately started snapping pictures of it.  This week I tried my hand at my own.

It is a Ring Toss Game. It is made from old used bottles. We all have them around.  I spray painted them different colors. So perfect for a child’s birthday party.  I purchased the wooden rings from Hobby Lobby. The size is 1 7/8 inches in diameter.  I had left over jute and wound the jute tightly around the ring. I finished it off with a small know and then modpodge the ends to seal 

My husband had an old crate he let me have. He painted it for me.

I can’t wait to have a back yard party, just to try out my new ring toss game.

So easy to make and so much fun.  

HELLO JUNE !

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Awww. June is here. I love summer and June brings summer . Pollen has long gone. Foliage and flowers are in full bloom . The trees look lush. The weather is warm during the day and breezy at night. I love riding the winding roads of Carolina in my convertible, just listening to the night sounds of Carolina.

And it is no wonder that June is the month of weddings.  In fact, in the South, there is a saying,

“when you marry in June you’re a bride all your life, and the bridegroom gets a sweet-heart for a wife.”

June is also Black Music Month. Imagine that ! The music I grew up with. Good music and summertime just go together.

Think of a June night. Now think of the song “Summertime” by DJ Jazzy Jeff or the song “Hot Fun In the Summertime” by Sly and the Family Stone.  Isn’t there something about those songs that makes a great summer night even better? That’s the essence of black music. As we say in Carolina, it is like a cool breeze on a warm night with a beer in your hand. That’s music !

And June is not complete with a stack of good summer reads. My latest find is The Summer’s End by Mary Alice Monroe . It is the last of the three part series of Lowcountry Summer. This series is could have been written about any Southern family. The first book is The Summer Girls and second is The Summer Winds. The series’ background is Sullivan Island , South Carolina and we read of a Grandmother who is on a mission. You know, we all have that special Grandmother who brings us back to our roots. It is a poignant and heartwarming story of three half sisters and their grandmother, who is determined to help them rediscover their southern roots and family bonds.

With great music and summer reads, and weddings each weekend to attend, it is time to start the special month of June.

Easter Dinner

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imageEaster, which celebrates Jesus Christ’s resurrection from the dead, is Christianity’s most important holiday. It has been called a moveable feast because it doesn’t fall on a set date every year, as most holidays do. Instead, Christian churches in the West celebrate Easter on the first Sunday following the full moon after the vernal equinox on March 21. Therefore, Easter is observed anywhere between March 22 and April 25 every year. 

My Easter morning begin with Hot Cross Buns and Hot coffee. I wake at 4 am. Sunrise services at church begin soon. I love making this service. Seeing the sun rise gives me the reassurance that Jesus Christ  indeed was raised from death . How fitting to see “The Son ” rise on Easter morning. After this service, I chat with fellow Christians , glad to have this day to give pause and reflection to our faith.  We will be back in a couple of hours for worship service and afterwards, many of us have guests arriving for dinner to celebrate the day.  Our Christian friends who don’t have family nearby are invited to our homes. Our church family is close and we make sure  all can celebrate with friends on this special day. My traditional Easter Dinner begins with a Honey Basted Ham.   Most of my dinner menu can be prepared the day before, so my Easter Day can be enjoyed with family and friends. When family arrives, they always have a side dish. Our table soon becomes a feast fit for a king.  The children have their annual Easter Egg Hunt  in the back yard and hurry in with their baskets full of eggs to count,  to see who wins the big prize chocolate bunny. No one goes home empty handed. They are miniature bunnies for anyone who looked for eggs. Enjoying family and friends at Easter makes such a  special day. We gather around the table, hold hands and give God the Glory for his Beloved Son who is our Lord and Savior.  Wishing you all a very Blest and  Christlike Easter. 

 Spring Brunch Menu

Honey Basted Ham from My Recipes

 

Deviled Eggs

Deviled Eggs by Sandra Lee

 

All you need is a few minutes of prep before throwing these beautiful carrots in the oven to roast. Get the recipe at Damn Delicious.

Glazed Carrots by Country Living

Fresh green beans elevate this country classic to the urban palate. The beans can be blanched and refrigerated the day before. Toss them with good-quality bread crumbs on the day of the meal, and heat through. Recipe: Fresh Green Bean Casserole

Fresh Green Beans by Country Living

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Easter Tablescape by Southern Living

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Tabletop Fire Glass Pit

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Spring is here!  Spring Mornings in Carolina are beautiful. Waking up before the sun rises and you see the mellow moon casting its light through shades of pinks. As the sun shows it glow, for about an hour you can see the sun and moon . The moon fades away in white. And the sun lights the horizons with streaks of gold, pink, and blues. Sunrise and dusk are favorite parts of your day in Carolina. The air is still a tad nippy . You can bundle up with your cup of coffee and enjoy the view . I like sitting by a fire. i saw an idea on Pinterest I just had to try.  It is a FireGlass Pit. It was so easy. I only needed three items. A terracota pot, three cans of sterno and couple of bags of fire glass. Just what is fire glass? It is glass that has been crushed,  tempered and the edges are smooth. It doesn’t combust or leave an odor. 

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So how do you create your own tabletop pit ? Take your three sterno cans and place in your terracota bowl. I make a triangle shape . Add your fire glass. Completely surround your cans with the fire glass.  Fire Glass comes in assorted colors, so you have options on accenting your table. I love the blue. Watching the fire reflecting off the glass makes me feel cozy and the heat is just enough to warm the air while you enjoy the sunrise and your cup of coffee. It is the best way to start your Carolina morning.

Herbs and Essential Oils

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Essential OilsGrowing up in rural North Carolina I was surrounded by farms and fields. My family operated a Bed and Breakfast, which was called The Gatesville Hotel.

This home had 33 rooms with five baths and three stairways. My mother and her help cooked breakfast daily for the visitors. The huge dining room table was always set by afternoon for the next day. 

We had our own garden. It was over an acre. Fresh vegetables and fruits were planted by the seasons.   In a corner of the acre of the garden was my Mother’s herb garden.   The perimeter was surrounded by flowers and the rows of herbs had little stakes with their names on them.  

The menus for breakfast changed according to the seasons of the garden. 

In the back pantry, which was a large room with windows and shelves built between the windows was the oils and herbs table. On top of this table was measuring spoons, pretty little glass bottles, and a recipe book from Rodale. My memory of this room was the aroma from the herbs. My nanny and I picked the fresh basil, peppermint, rosemary, lavender, etc, early in the mornings, while the dew was still on the leaves. She would separate the herbs on the table. Some of these were used in recipes and others were mixed with carrier oils to put in the baths with the linens. I enjoyed watching my mother and Ms. Hattie working at this table. The book they used for recipes was well worned. When they would leave the table, I would sit at it, pretending I was mixing too. I spent plenty of playtime at this table

So throughout my life, I have had an interest in herbs and their value in our lives. I learned that besides being used in our foods, that they had medicinal and healing purposes and even natural ways of cleaning and insect repellants.

 Besides all the benefits of natural herbs and oil, I simply enjoy watching them grow and the aroma of the garden.

 A little bit of history about herbs

Essential oils and herbs have been used since civilization. Myrrh was used by the Ancient Grecians and Romans to heal wounds and as an anti-inflammatory. During the outbreak of the Bubonic Plague in the 12th Century, Cinnamon, Ginger and Sandalwood served as lifesaving antibiotics. In the 1920s, French Chemist Rene-Maurice Gattefosse was badly burned in an accident in his lab and he found that by dipping his skin into lavender, he eliminated infection and prevented scarring. Studies show essential oils from herbs have antiseptic, anti-inflammatory, antibacterial, antifungal and anti-parasitic properties. It only takes a few drops to have an effect when using them.

Essential oils are super-concentrated. It takes about 16 pounds of fresh peppermint leaves to produce an ounce of essential oil. These oils are the active ingredients and flavor additives in many kinds of everyday products , candies, syrups, toothpastes, mouthwashes, cleaning products, skin creams, lip balms, shampoos, bath salts, and soaps. Essential oils even give flavor and aroma to the spices that you use to add zest to your cooking, such as cinnamon, allspice, and nutmeg used for apple cider, pies, and baked goods.

And essential oil and herbs are used to relax and refresh our bodies. . The healing and holistic medicinal properties of essential oils have been known to treat everything from minor colds to diabetes.

On my sidebar you will have more information on Essential Oils and their benefits. You can also order online a great resource book. I use the   The Essential Life“. Like the wore torned book in my Mother’s pantry, I find recipes and uses of the herbs from my garden in this beautiful illustrated book.

 

 

 

On the Go Travel Games

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imageTraveling long distances alone is fun. The phone is off. You have your own music or book playing. You take the back roads to your destination. You stop along the way at a local diner and have their special for lunch.  And they will always have sweet tea and chocolate pie on the menu. It may take twice as long to arrive, but you actually feel rested from your drive. 

When you are traveling with kids and some adults, it can become tiresome to those backseat drivers.  I learned along time ago to keep an ample supply of games on the go. The internet and iPhone are slowly taking over the backseat, but every once and while, the backseaters just want to enjoy the ride and play a travel on the go game.  The all time favorite is travel bingo.  I picked two sets up at the local Cracker Barrel. One set is for the rural roads and the other set is aimed for interstate roads.  They are a lot of fun and we even have made bets on who was buying dinner on the loser.  The interstate and rural bingo  can be found here
  
   

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Another fun on the go game is Uno. This game can go on for quite some time.  You made have to pick up where you left off when you stop for lunch. There is also a lot of deciding who gets the next draw.  You can find it here.

 

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My favorite is hangman. I can’t actually play because I am usually driving, but I can’t help myself in wanting to spell the words.

 

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Of course the favorite of the guys is battleship. The back seat gets rather loud with this game. I just turn up my music . That works every time.  The best part of the trip is family and friends are enjoying the ride .  

 

 

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Make-up Travel Tips for Carry-Ons

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Traveling long distance flights are tedious. Within six hours of your flight, you are so restless. When booking flights , I look for flights that correlate to my body rhythm of home.  even though the flying time zone is day, my body says good night. With that in mind, my booked flights are planned that I will fall asleep naturally after  6 to 7 hours into the 18 hour flight. The first hours are usually layovers and flight changes and by 8 hours into the trip, I am settled for the flight over the ocean, whichever one it might be.

After dozing awhile, you need a break, whether it is to walk up and down or just make it to the restroom, you need to move your legs.  And there are certain items you NEED in your carryon.

 Purchase all travel size items. Make it easy on yourself as you go through customs. Have items in a clear plastic container. Remember the rule   3-1-1 of   TSA.  All liquids must be in a resealable  container that is 3.4 ounces or less and  all containers must fit in one clear, plastic, resealable 1-quart-sized bag.  Simple .

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For more information on what can be in a carry on,  check out this great site.

Your non liquid items can be carried on have no limits You can organized them in your bag as you normally would. For faster moving through customs, I have separate clear bags and lay them both (liquid and non-liquid) in the container with the items I don’t want x-rayed.  I found it goes much more smoothly.

What’s in those bags ?    Travel size toothbrush and paste, mints, facial wipes with cleanser, baby powder, stick deodorant,  moistures, lip balm,  mascara, small hairbrush and tieback for hair. A scarf or roll-up ball cap helps if your hair just won’t cooperate and sunglasses.  That’s it. Knowing the flight is just for getting to your destination, all you really need are the essentials that will help you survive till you get to your room.

What other items make traveling easier ?  This post is packed with items to carry you through your flight and stay. Check it out, if you have time.

Charming Italy

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Italy.  I was told before going to expect the unexpected.  And believe me, that is true.  Our destination was Pistoia  It  is a small city and within an hour’s drive from Florence. The streets of downtown are very very narrow and no thru traffic is allowed into the downtown of the historic section. This historic town is well preserved and there was much to see and visit. I knew I wouldn’t be able  to see it all, since my visit was short and business. Being an outsider, I noticed immediately that I was watched. When I introduced myself as an American, people became curious and asked me questions about America. They only see Americans as what they find on the media. Their images are Americans are rich, fast paced, and techy savvy.   I didn’t  fit any of these adjectives.  They do watch everything you do and how you do it, which didn’t surprise me, as in Qatar , I had the same experience.  But it did surprise me.   The people are friendly if they think you have money.

Italians love to be outside and there are outdoor markets and cafes throughout the streets of Pistoia. Italians dress very well.  The wines are fantastic and sitting in the cafes is actually a leisurely past time for them. This is much the same as in Qatar, only the men sit together with chia . Here in Italy, it is wine and men and women sit together. Italians are loud. They yell and are very animated. That is saying it kindly.  

For me sitting in the ancient piazzas and seeing the beautiful works of art were breath taking. Pistoia is pretty. It is off the beaten path, which made it even more attractive to visit. The historic center of town is accessible by foot, which was great. I set my sights on the Cathedral of San Zeno. On the flight over, I had been researching what to visit. The Cathedral and the Bell Tower were on my list. I also wanted to visit the Pistoia Underground. It is a guided tour and I had to buy my ticket inside a hospital.  Underground, you see the smallest amphitheater in the world. The medieval washhouses and ancient mills. Simply amazing. The best of this tour was seeing the old entrance of Pistoia.

Pistoia Underground Museum: Source:Underground Pistoia

Entering the Cathedral of San Zeno , I felt humble. The frescoes are simply break taking and look so alive , even after all the centuries. I was thinking as I listened to our guide, how many had walked this hallway and entrance to the altar for communion , celebration, worship.  Another perceptive of origins and where we are as a people today. Is today  any better than in the tenth century ?  So much was explained in the tour, I couldn’t begin to write it all as I was mostly absorbing the magnificent of the cathedral.  If you want to know more about the history, please check out this link.

Of course, you can’t leave Italy without have gelato. The shop was called  Gelateria Voronoi and we had the pistachio flavor.  Lunch was at La Bottegaia.  If you are a traveler that loves the path less taken and have a love for mystery, this town is the perfect visit. It is full of history and the old blends into the new.

Now back to the states.

Crossing Countries  Global Peace.

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Living by Logic

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Micah 6:8Living by logic. As an adult, we have decisions to make.Daily you hear the media, politicians, leaders, social media everydayers, voiced their demands and opinions upon others .

As we say in the South, everybody has one, an opinion. Some more loudly and obnoxious than the other. Some never saying their opinions, they just live their opinions.  Why does someone have a certain opinion? What drew them to that opinion?  Logic.

In Genesis, it is noted two accounts of creation. And in reading the two accounts , you see opposing sides of mankind’s nature. We see Adam as ambitious . He wants to build, create, produce and discover things. Second creation story shows Adam wanting to have a serene inner character, He is solid in seeing right and wrong. He not only wants to do good, but he wants to be good.   One wants to conquer the earthly world, the other wants to obey the calling to serve in this earthly world.  The two Adams approach their being  in different ways.  What brings them to be in conflict?  Logic.

One is living utilitarian logic and the other by inverse logic. Utilitarian logic  is the logic of economics. Input leads to output. Pursue self-interest. Impress the world.   Inverse logic is a moral logic, you have to give to receive. In order to fulfill yourself, you have to forget yourself. In order to grow your strengths, you confront your weaknesses.  Can the two be reconciled?

Have you ever come met someone who possessed an impressive inner cohesiveness?  They don’t live fragmented, scattered lives. They are calm, settled and rooted.  You may not even notice this person at first,  since you are busy in voicing your opinions and shoutouts. Your opinion demands attention. But when you really notice this person, you see they are kind and cheerful and also reserved. They possess the virtues of humility, restraint, respect and self-discipline. They are dignified when others try to humiliate them. They are restrained when other try to provoke them. But they get things done. You never hear them boast, the nature of self-righteous eludes them.  They seem Christ like.

Someone who has an inner cohesive life doesn’t always live with a conflict-free tranquility. They have the moments others have.  What they recognize is that the first Adam of their being needs to be reconciled with the second.  They achieved their success by surrendering to the struggle to deepen the soul. They found the balance . Their character is formed.

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Please visit this inspiring website.  French Press Mornings.

May your week be filled with the spirit of humility and serving unto others.

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Pack Your Bags

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I love this little story. My husband and I travel quite a bit. We are sitting in a restaurant in Japan. The waitress asked what we would like to drink. My husband replies soğuk su. I laugh. Definitely he has travel warp. Traveling all over the globe and living in a foreign country , you absorb their culture and language. He laughs too and points to the menu. We hadn’t learned the word for water in Japanese yet. Yep, the next stop will be to learn Japanese.

Traveling globally in the past six years gives you knowledge of what you need and don’t really need for your stay.

Here is my list of “I need” when traveling.

My passport and immunizations chart in a passport cover. I love my passport cover. Not only does it keep my passport looking new, but it has document slots inside that I can carry cards, and other id. This is a must on your list.

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BAN DO | Ban.Do I’m Outta Here Passport Holder at ASOS

 

Tags for your luggage.

You want to tag your luggage. You want to tag it inside and out. There have several trips I made it to my destination and my luggage took the scenic route.

And there have been times when it arrived, you can tell it had been inspected thoroughly along the way. I actually have my home address and contact numbers laminated inside my luggage just in case the tags gets lost .

My favorite tags are  

Abas Glitter-Leather Luggage Tag & Passport Sleeve

You can add your initials and with the sparkly tag, it reflects when going around on the luggage run and easily spotted.

A clear  toiletries holder.

I learned this from my first adventure. When going through customs, they inspect everything. Some countries are more thorough than others. It holds everyone up when, you have a toiletries bag that has to be rumbled through. With the clear holders, the inspectors see the contents and no need of unzipping and zipping a bag. They appreciate it too. More than once, I have been thanked for having a clear bag.

Anya Hindmarch Inflight Bag | SHOPBOP

Good pair of sunglasses. And you want a sturdy pair. They will get a beating. Between being in the bottom of my tote and ipad on top, I wonder how they stay intact. My favorites are Brighton. Just because. My husband swears by his ray bans.

Brighton Sunglasses | Eyewear

Noise Blocker

I didn’t think this was important until flights became 18 hours or more. It is nothing more annoying than traveling beside a snoring person or a chatty kathy.

Having my noise blockers on, even with them turned off , you aren’t bothered. They are worth the investment.

Bose QuietComfort 25 Acoustic Noise Cancelling Headphones

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Phone Charger

Having to plan travel around charging your electronics is a waste. It is like having to remember to put money in a parking meter. After two times of zero battery left on my phone, I said never again. I just love my Mophie

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I guess this must-have is a given and need not be mentioned. But after traveling and watching others , I realized some don’t think of shoes. You need comfortable shoes. It doesn’t matter what brand. What matters is that they are broken in, fit your feet and have some cushion. Buy them before leaving USA. Shoes are more expensive in European countries.

My favorites are

Superga ‘Cotu’ Sneaker (Women) | Nordstrom

Last of all , the best investment is your handbag. This goes everywhere with you and it holds everything together. It needs a zippered top and many slots in inside. I use a shouldered one and wear it in front of me as a cross body bag.I know my bag so well, I can reach inside and feel and know which slots hold what. There are so many to pick from.             BGS16_V11DS

 

 

Givenchy Pandora Medium Leather Satchel Bag, Black   

Now it is time to pack. Wanderlust is calling.

Arranging the Roses

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You open the front door and by gosh, there is a long box sent FedEx addressed to you. If you are lucky enough to have your sweetheart with you every day, believe me, you are lucky enough. Many of us share our love one with the military, government work overseas, and organizations that keep the world safe . I am one of them. My wonderful husband keeps us safe. And not just America, though his heart is red, white and blue. He keeps us safe, I mean, the world. Global peace drives him and he makes a difference in a better way every day in his work. So I share him with the world. We are united forever in our love and commitment to each other. We are as one. Though there is distance between us, our heartstrings go across the globe. So on Valentine’s Day, there will be a FedEx box at my door. And inside will be roses. Because I am a designer, my husband sends a box of flowers, not a prearranged vase of flowers. He knows my passion for design. 

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Not everyone has this talent, my daughter tells me. So I want to share with you the most basic steps that you can use to make your flower arrangement look like a pro.

If you receive a dozen red roses, the first thing you do is. Prepare a sugar-clorox mix of one-half cup granulated sugar and two teaspoons of clorox in a two-gallon pail of warm water. This is basic to the longevity of the roses. The sugar keeps the roses developing and the Clorox prevents bacteria from forming and clouding the water.

Once you have your water ready, submerge your roses into the bucket of water. Take a sharp knife and cut the stem while holding it under water and cut at a 45 degree angle. Leave the roses sitting the water. Continue this with all your roses.

Find the vase you want to accent your roses. This is the trick you will want to remember. You can easily arrange your flowers and keep them standing up in the vase, by using clear tape. Yep, that’s right. Take the tape and zigzag it across the top of vase. Just make sure the top of the vase is dry when you put it on.

Now go back to your roses and strip them of their thorns and leaves, leaving just a few leaves close to the head of the rose. You can use a paring knife for this; however there is a special knife that we use in floral design. If your flowers came with filler foliage, such as baker’s fern, you will want to clean the fuzz off of its stems as well. Once this is completed, it is time to kiss the rose, as I say. The outer petals of the rose are called guard petals. They will look a little wilted or brown at the top edges. Just pull them of off. Your roses will look like a bud or tight rose. Don’t worry, they will open up. You then cut your roses’ stems to 1 and 1 half times the height of your vase.

You are ready to create. Crisscross the stems of baker’s fern, if you have it and insert into your vase. If not, start by inserting your first stem of roses into the vase, and then place the next stem across it and continue crossing each new stem over the last one until the glass is full. This is done between the spaces in the tape. You will see the stems crisscrossing in the water of the vase. This keeps the flowers from moving and the tape helps give a newbie a guide of arranging at an angle. Once you have placed all the flowers in the vase, you can move them a little to put your finishing touch on it. And you are done.Tumblr O2agpeFbSC1rzo24oo1 1280    

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Remember your flowers love water. Give them plenty in the morning and evening.

And one more little tidbit, just because you have a dozen red roses ,  you don’t have to keep them all together.. I usually make a tall vase of six and then make a round design with the other six. This is arranging them tight in a low vase. Roses like to touch. And this design is a great accent  on an end or foyer table.

 

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If you ever noticed, you see this style quite a bit on the morning news at the anchor desk of the hosts.   Wishing you all a very Happy Valentine’s Day. And please keep our love ones overseas in your prayers and thoughts. Though they are miles away, their hearts never left home. God Bless America!

 

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Love and Valentines

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Valentine’s Day! Such a special day. It is the time the florist phone is ringing , right up to closing. Extended hours could go to 11:59 pm and there will be the one who just needs a few rose petals to layer the bath by midnight. It is a fun celebration and love is in the air. The many ways we love someone gives us ideas to be unique in how we really show it. I have seen tickets to concerts, spa gift cards, weekend getaways and yes, it is the best time to ask, will you marry me. What always accompanies the special idea is  flowersIr?t=msbeebeeinnc 20&l=ur2&o=1 . I enjoy creating floral designs for sweethearts. It is much like a wedding. A young man comes in to order flowers for a new girlfriend. He tells how special she is, her beauty, her smile,and her love . You know as a designer your design reflects his love. You personalized it  with her in mind. Valentine svg fileMoments later, you look up and an older gentleman is ordering his flowers. He has been with his wife who he calls his sweetheart for fifty years. He talks of her smile, her beauty and her love for him. And you know his love must shine through the design. You personalized it with his love for her in your thoughts. A favorite story I must share happened 15 years ago. I was busy working on arrangements . I finished most of my orders and one of the coworkers gave me a message. A customer had requested for me to design an arrangement for his wife. He didn’t care about the cost. He said she was the puzzle piece he had looked for. He felt like the day he meet her he had come home. I asked , what is her age, how long have they been married, what are her favorite colors and flowers. He hadn’t given that information and he hadn’t left a number to call back. He just said he would pick them up at five. I was nervous. He had said the cost wasn’t an issue. I started creating and then hesitated, wishing, I knew more about this lady. I took a deep breath and thought, what would I want for Valentines flowers. I started again and thought of my husband, and created the design of my dreams. Finished, it sat on the case all afternoon. Customers ooh and aah for it. Five o clock and we are closing and still no man shows to pick up the arrangement. I’m worried. I know it is closing time. It had been a very long day and yet, I couldn’t leave without delivering this arrangement. I called my husband and told him I would be late. He said, I’ll come down and wait with you and later we can celebrate with dinner. Thirty minutes later, still no customer pickup. I opened the shop door to my husband and he said Happy Valentine’s Day Sweetheart. And he smiled with his eyes. And then I realized the man who made the call had been my husband.